Self Love Ladies

This is for the ladies only....What's up Ladies? And I'm talking to the ones that don't value themselves

enough, the one's that have low self esteem.  I can really understand some of what you deal with, because I have ben there.  But at some point in your life no matter what, you have to look in the mirror and recognize who you are as a women.  Forget about the negative things you may have been told by parents, yes I said parents because they are the first people in your life to influence you. Then there may be people you went to school with and last it could be a significant other in your life.

A lot of women don't know that they have a lot of power within. We can make some things happen just by thinking it, and having self confidence. It gets me so upset when I see a woman do anything just to satisfy another person, just for that other person to like them. Why are you giving another person all of your  power?  And the worst is when I see a woman put up with all kinds of nonsense to keep a man in her life!!!  STOP IT!!!  If no one else has encouraged you at any point in your life, I'm here to do it today.

I don't care what color you are, what your size is, how much education you have, what you have or don't have, You better have SELF LOVE! You better be able to love yourself so much until nothing bothers you, and you can smile through any negativity that's thrown your way because it just rolls off of you like water.

You better know that you are fearlessly and wonderfully made. You better know that you are the 

most beautiful creature God has made.  Let me tell you something, when you walk in confidence, people see it and respect it.  If a man wants you in his life, that will be what he see's and respect. And if he can't, he is not the one honi. You Never take down all that specialness to have a man., or to be accepted by anyone!  Comment on this post if you want to talk about it. I will be glad to engage and encourage. 

Stay safe💟💟💟

Jealousy ain't cute👽 

Jealous hearted people don't always want what you have

they just don't want you to have it. Some people are just built like that.

It's more about how much you have, verses how much they have. 

Any time a person makes a screwed up face when you talk about something

you purchased, they are not happy for you. When people are happy for

you they rejoice with you.

 I am sure most people are familiar with the term "Keeping up with the Joneses."

I believe everyone interprets that term differently.  This is what I mean for example. 

You decide to buy a new car, you are excited about it, then there is your neighbor that see's

it. Instead of them being happy for you, they go out and purchase the same car different color.

And it goes on and on with anything else you purchase.  But what people like that

don't realize is you are not paying any type of attention to them. They live in their

own bubble in their head, always trying to one up someone else. 

Don't waste time trying to figure people out. Do you😎😎

 RIP DMX😢

Absent from the body, but will always be on our minds.  You will be truly missed.

For all the things that you dealt with, even the things only you and God know, It was not in vain. Even though the pain was more than you could bare, God kept you here for a purpose, and when the purpose was fulfilled, He made sure that you knew Him, and why you had to go through so much.  Now you can rest in His arms and be in peace.

 

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

 

With all the things going in the world today, we all need to stop and find some beauty in our lives.

Ask yourself what is it that I love that give me peace. 

It's the sound of water that give me peace. I sit and meditate, and when I can't sleep I turn on sleep sounds that contain waves of the ocean or rain sounds. What is it that give you peace?

Cheating Respectfully

   

I never heard of the saying, cheating respectfully. I heard a young woman try and explain this to her friends and they were looking at her like she had lost her mind. Frankly so was I . She went on to say that long as he do not  bring her STD's, have a baby on her or be on the down low, she fine with it.

Where they do that at.😕

Anyway I am not built like that, and there is no way I would put up with that nonsense.  My question would be does that work both ways? because nine times out of ten, I don't think he could deal with that coming from her.😒

What is the point of the relationship? 

Just be single and you can do what ever you want without restrictions and controversy

But you have to respect peoples decisions they make for their own lives. SMH

🙅 

Change

The world that we  are living in now require a different standared... Since times have changed, our minds must change and  adapt to the things that go on around us.  I feel as if every decade people's way of thinking change.  Music, the way we dress as well.
       I know in order to get something different in life...you have to do something different..I also know the hardest thing for a lot of people to do is change.   So many of us are set in our ways and we think what worked years ago, will still work now. Even though I believe some things like the way children should be deciplined should never change..but I don't think anything you do to today's kid would matter because their thought pattern is solo different.
     People may ignore this fact, not want to hear it....but we are living in the last days....take a look around you..things are crazy as hell.  Open your eyes people...live your life like no tommorow. Stay positive, and love hard.💖